‘Relaja la raja’ is a Spanish phrase, maybe you already know that. In English it captures the sentiment of ‘calm your tits’, literally meaning ‘calm your crack’. Calm your c**t, even better! I think it’s a great phrase. I’m Jo, 35, from Northern Ireland, co-founder of New View Project living in north London. Not really any the wiser about what to be when I grow up. Trying to keep a calm c**t about this.